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4 Ways To Deal With Your Partner When He / She Loses The Job

To be with someone who is financially stable, makes you feel safer. But one day, your partner can give you the bad news by telling that he/her is unemployed.

Even if you will get angry, it’s very important that you shouldn’t reflect your real feelings with your partner.


You should keep in mind that every problem has a solution and you should support your partner with kind words.

Scroll down to see more tips that tell you some helpful reactions when your partner loses the job.

How To Deal With Your Partner When He/She Loses The Job?

1. PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR MOOD

As mentioned, people handle crises differently – and unemployment is no exception. Many studies have found a causal relationship between unemployment and the onset of anxiety and depression. Even if you think that you “know” your partner, it remains a wise move to observe their mood states. Usually, if they’re not displaying mood swings or becoming overly sullen, things will be okay.

2. DON’T EXPRESS OVERT PITY

Yes, you ache for your partner’s situation – and rightly so. But there is a profound difference between compassion and expressing sorrow or pity. By all means, be there for them when they need to talk. If they need a shoulder to cry on, offer them yours. Just don’t invite a pity party.

3. DISCUSS AND VALIDATE

Most unemployed people feel guilty and ashamed of their situation. They may believe that others look down on them or think of them as a burden. Gently opening up an avenue for discussion may help. It is important to understand that the person’s first few days or unemployment usually are when they’re the most emotionally volatile. Leave the conversation open by saying something simple like “I know this is a difficult time. I’m here for you if you need to talk.”

4. HELP SOLVE THE PROBLEM (WHEN YOU CAN)

Eventually, the problem of unemployment requires a solution. The person must realize that, as their partner, you have an obligation to help solve problems. While they may initially become angry or defensive, these feelings will subside. If you need help thinking of something to say, here’s an example: “I know that times are tough right now. You’re only human. But I’m willing to help brainstorm and come up with some strategies. Let me know if you think this would be helpful.”

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