Did you ever become suspicious if your partner is cheating on you?
According to psychologists, couples who are married and are in a relationship for a long time, think that their partner will never cheat on them.
But sometimes, the past years or memories don’t have the same meaning for your partner like for you. Because they can be so special and amazing for you, while for your partner they don’t mean anything and seem to be boring.
There are many reasons that can make your partner sleep with someone else.
Below you can find some signs your partner is hiding this fact from you and making you feel like a real victim.
Which Are 4 Signs Your Partner Is Sleeping With Someone Else?
1. THEY’RE (TOO OFTEN) HOME LATE FROM WORK
If your partner is usually home by a certain time every day, but suddenly they’re staying late at work, it could be an excuse for them to see someone else behind your back. It’s a common enough excuse that many people don’t think too much about.
As dating and relationship advice and etiquette expert April Masini says, “When someone stops coming home at the regular time, on a regular basis, be wary. When a schedule changes and there’s no comment about why or what he or she is doing differently, it may be because your spouse is cheating on you.”
2. THEY SHOWER AS SOON AS THEY GET HOME
Unless your partner does a job like construction, roofing, or something else that’s bound to get them dirty, taking a shower as soon as they get off work can be a sign that they’re trying to wash away the evidence of another person. They might want to scrub away some errant lipstick, or a hint of cologne or perfume. This is a sign, especially if their showering habits are changing suddenly.
3. THEIR S*X DRIVE IS DOWN
People’s s*x drives often fluctuate due to stress, nutrition, lack of exercise, or any other reason. A fluctuating s*x drive isn’t a sign in and of itself. But, if your s*x life has always been pretty regular, and they start no longer desiring your attention, it may be because they’re getting their needs met elsewhere. But why?
Psychotherapist and author Tina B. Tessina, PhD., says, “Most women cheat because they feel emotionally deprived, and men are unfaithful because they often feel sexually deprived.”
4. THEY PAY MORE ATTENTION TO THEIR APPEARANCE
This sign doesn’t always mean that they’re sleeping with someone else – especially if they’ve already discussed with you wanting to change their appearance. However, if your partner goes from not caring much about how they look, to suddenly preening like a peacock, they may be trying to impress someone else.
Masini adds, “If your partner starts suddenly looking a lot better than he or she used to, they may be cheating.” If you’re not sure that the person they’re trying to impress is you, this can point to a sign of your partner stepping out.